(EAGAN,
MN. June 1, 2023) – Despite the horror of being physically hurt, and having their money or
medication stolen, elders who are abused or neglected often endure the abuse
without calling for help. As lifelong caregivers and protectors, many elders
suffer in silence to maintain the well-being of their family and that may
include their abuser.
June 15 is World Elder Abuse Awareness Day (WEAAD) - a day to raise
awareness and prevent elder abuse. It’s a day to reflect on what it’s like to
become an Elder and the many challenges they are facing such as: losing
strength, muscle, and bone mass. Mental clarity can deteriorate and lead to
memory loss. These inevitable vulnerabilities leave our elders at risk of being
abused.
According to the National Council on Aging, most abuse occurs in the home and at the hands
of family members.
“It’s unacceptable when elders silently suffer abuse and neglect at the
hands of those who should be protecting them,” said CEO Lori Jump, StrongHearts
Native Helpline. “Many elders refuse to report their abusers because they are
closely related and want to protect their family, but there are so many more
reasons that most people can’t imagine.”
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Love:
Despite the abuse or neglect, victims continue to love their abusive partner or
relative.
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Fear:
Elders may fear retaliation if they report the abuse.
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Embarrassment:
Worrying about what others might think or do to make matters worse.
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Lack
of Resources: Many elders live on fixed incomes and may depend on their abuser
for shelter.
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Accessibility:
Elders may not be able to report if they do not have access to cell phones,
internet and/or transportation.
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Polyvictimization
and Normalization: For generations, Native people have endured multiple types
of abuse at the hands of non-Natives - so much so that abuse seems normal - an
everyday part of life.
Types of Abuse
Elder abuse is an intentional act or failure to act that causes or
creates a risk of harm to an older adult. The abuser can be a family member,
caretaker or another person that the elder trusts. Types of abuse can include:
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Emotional
abuse - causes mental pain, fear and/or distress
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Physical
abuse - the use of force to cause pain, injury, etc
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Financial
abuse - improper use of an elders money, property or assets
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Caregiver
neglect - a failure to meet basic needs (food, water, medical care)
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Sexual
abuse - forced or unwanted sexual interactions of any kind
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Cultural
and spiritual abuse
Learn The Signs Of Abuse
The signs of elder abuse may be difficult to spot as they could
sometimes be the result of disease, side effects from medications or similar
reasons. However, if you suspect that an Elder is being abused, be patient,
talk and listen to them. Be aware that they may say that they are being
“disrespected” rather than abused. Other signs of abuse may include:
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Unexplained
bruising or injury
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Changes
in behavior
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Lack
of interest in family or social events
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Loss
of weight
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Not
having necessary medical aids ( glasses, walkers, teeth, etc) or adequate food,
water, shelter
How can you help?
Education is always the first step. Understand the warning signs of
elder abuse and pay attention to the elders in your life. Ensuring that our
elders are properly cared for can include:
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Offering
to help those in your family that might be feeling burdened with the care of a
loved one.
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Spending
time with an elder and planning a rotating schedule if you have multiple
caregivers.
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Bringing
them nutritional foods like baked goods or even better fry bread.
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Talking
and listening to their stories because elders have a lot of wisdom to share and
appreciate.
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Every
state has an Adult Protective Services division for those wishing to report
abuse at www.napsa-now.org/help-in-your-area.
StrongHearts can help. Advocates are available 24/7 to provide support
and advocacy, make referrals to Native centered service providers and connect
our relatives to regionally available resources. We are here 24/7/365.
SOURCE
National Center for Injury Prevention and Control, Division of Violence
Prevention https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/elderabuse/fastfact.html
National Adult Protective Services Association https://www.napsa-now.org/help-in-your-area/