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There might be some duplicate posts prior to 2020. I am trying to delete them when I find them. Sorry!

SURVEY FOR ALL FIRST NATIONS ADOPTEES

SURVEY FOR ALL FIRST NATIONS ADOPTEES
ADOPTEES - we are doing a COUNT

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Support Info: If you are a Survivor and need emotional support, a national crisis line is available 24 hours a day, seven days a week: Residential School Survivor Support Line: 1-866-925-4419. Additional Health Support Information: Emotional, cultural, and professional support services are also available to Survivors and their families through the Indian Residential Schools Resolution Health Support Program. Services can be accessed on an individual, family, or group basis.” These & regional support phone numbers are found at https://nctr.ca/contact/survivors/ . MY EMAIL: tracelara@pm.me

Thursday, May 31, 2018

Out of Darkness: 7 Part Series: Indigenous Solutions for Child Welfare







In This Series




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How Canada Created a Crisis in Indigenous Child Welfare


Part one of a series: from residential schools to the Sixties Scoop, governments set out to undermine Indigenous families.



By Katie Hyslop, 9 May 2018







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How Poverty and Underfunding Land Indigenous Kids in Care


Part two of a series: governments falling short in fixing Indigenous child welfare crisis, say critics.



By Katie Hyslop, 14 May 2018







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Lessons from Care: ‘If the Government Hadn’t Done All Those Terrible Things’


Part three in a series. Who better to
ask for solutions than Indigenous youth who have been in government
care. First up, Ashley Bach.



By Katie Hyslop, 16 May 2018







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The Kelowna Accord, Racism and the Child Welfare Crisis


Part four in a series. Former PM Paul Martin says an opportunity was lost; Cindy Blackstock isn’t so sure.



By Katie Hyslop, 22 May 2018







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Changes Coming — Slowly — to Indigenous Child Welfare in BC


Part five of a series. Now that governments are finally acknowledging the problem, here’s what is changing.



By Katie Hyslop, 24 May 2018







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Lessons from Care: ‘The Only Flaw in This System Is that Some of Us Survived’


Part six in a series. Jaye Simpson on lessons from a childhood in care.



By Katie Hyslop, 28 May 2018






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Closing the Gap Between White Schools of Social Work and Indigenous Families


Part seven of a series. Indigenizing social work, one school at a time.



By Katie Hyslop, Today



 



Out of Darkness: 7 Part Series: Indigenous Solutions for Child Welfare


In This Series

news

ResidentialSchoolIndigenousWelfare.jpg

How Canada Created a Crisis in Indigenous Child Welfare

Part one of a series: from residential schools to the Sixties Scoop, governments set out to undermine Indigenous families.
By Katie Hyslop, 9 May 2018

news

AttawapiskatReserveHome.jpg

How Poverty and Underfunding Land Indigenous Kids in Care

Part two of a series: governments falling short in fixing Indigenous child welfare crisis, say critics.
By Katie Hyslop, 14 May 2018

news

AshleyBachIndigenousYouth.jpg

Lessons from Care: ‘If the Government Hadn’t Done All Those Terrible Things’

Part three in a series. Who better to ask for solutions than Indigenous youth who have been in government care. First up, Ashley Bach.
By Katie Hyslop, 16 May 2018

news

paul-martin-1.jpg

The Kelowna Accord, Racism and the Child Welfare Crisis

Part four in a series. Former PM Paul Martin says an opportunity was lost; Cindy Blackstock isn’t so sure.
By Katie Hyslop, 22 May 2018

news

katrine-conroy.jpg

Changes Coming — Slowly — to Indigenous Child Welfare in BC

Part five of a series. Now that governments are finally acknowledging the problem, here’s what is changing.
By Katie Hyslop, 24 May 2018

news

Jaye-Simpson-Smaller.jpg

Lessons from Care: ‘The Only Flaw in This System Is that Some of Us Survived’

Part six in a series. Jaye Simpson on lessons from a childhood in care.
By Katie Hyslop, 28 May 2018

news

jacquie-green-convocation-ring.jpg

Closing the Gap Between White Schools of Social Work and Indigenous Families

Part seven of a series. Indigenizing social work, one school at a time.
By Katie Hyslop, Today

 

Sunday, May 27, 2018

Keep Dancing: We are not Victims

THIS IS AN EARLIER POST from this blog
By Trace A. DeMeyer

“I get up. I walk. I fall down. Meanwhile I keep dancing.” That is a line in the book “Bird by Bird” by Ann Lamott.  Her comical book offers instructions on writing and life and so far -- I’ve had good belly laughs. Yep, Ann made a funny book!
In part two, Ann was fighting herself over jealousy of another writer friend. She wrote, “Sometimes this human stuff is slimy and pathetic - jealousy especially so - but better to feel it and talk about it and walk through it than to spend a lifetime poisoned by it."

Poison is nothing to mess with.  I spoke with an adoptee friend last night and Levi is sure we adoptees need to create new ceremonies, even some just for us adoptees. I was nodding at every word Levi said.  A lifetime of isolation from what we know to be ours, our blood rights as Indigenous People, our language and culture and the healing offered by participating in ceremony, it was not ours growing up white and adopted and assimilated.

But we adoptees are not victims, Levi said. No, we are changed by adoption but not its victims.

I thought about ceremony, what ceremony I missed growing up, and what other Indian people probably took for granted growing up. That does make me jealous. I didn’t get to meet my grandmothers in flesh, only in dreams.
I am sad I do not how to make my own regalia. I see others dance at powwow and wish someone had time to teach me what I need to know.

I can think of a million things I’d like to know. When I met relatives in Illinois last year, I was over the moon happy.  My Harlow cousins filled many holes in my heart.
I am in reunion. Jealousy is not my poison.

For those not in reunion, their hearts ache.  We need to find a way to heal them.

Wednesday, May 23, 2018

How Foster Care Has Stripped Native American Children of Their Own Cultures

“Some envision themselves as saviors, maintaining that Native children are better off growing up in white homes.”

Removal didn’t just happen through boarding schools. Native children were also taken from their families and communities and placed with non-Natives. Lost Bird was among the first. She was found as an infant under her mother’s frozen body after the Wounded Knee Massacre in 1890, when more than 150 unarmed Lakota were slaughtered by the U.S. Cavalry. She was adopted by Gen. Leonard Colby. Her life was difficult and marred with rejection and abuse: Her adoptive father was indifferent to her existence, and her adoptive mother attempted to raise her as white, but society would not accept her. No one could erase her desire to learn about her Lakota roots, either.
By the 1970s, research found that approximately 25% to 35% of all Native children in the U.S. were being placed in foster homes, adoptive homes, or institutions, and 85% of these children were being placed outside of their families and communities, even when fit and willing relatives were available to care for them. Research has shown that Native children in foster care who stayed connected to their culture did better, and those who weren’t were at greater risk for behavioral and mental health problems.

MUST READ: The Foster Care System Has Failed Native American Youth

Friday, May 11, 2018

Coming Up: Native America Calling: Tracy Rector



Tracy Rector's (Choctaw/Seminole) films have been seen by audiences at the Cannes Film Festival, ImagineNative, the Toronto International Film Festival, and PBS. Her latest work, Dawnland, follows Maine's Truth and Reconciliation Commission to address the removal of Native children from their homes. The other films she's worked on include Teachings of the Tree People, March Point, and Ch'aak' S'aagi. Rector describes herself as a mixed race urban Indian, filmmaker and activist. We'll talk with her about her passion for filmmaking, social justice and what is next for her career.
 
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